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Prayer & Decision-Making

7/21/2025

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Leadership requires decision-making. Some decisions are small, others carry heavy weight. For Christian leaders, prayer isn’t the last resort—it’s the starting point. Prayer keeps us from leading out of fear, pride, or pressure and helps us align with God’s will, not just our plans.

Leading with Surrender
James 1:5 reminds us, "If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him."

Prayer invites God's wisdom into our leadership, reminding us that we don’t have to have all the answers—we just need to seek the One who does.

Prayer isn't about getting a quick answer. It's about positioning our hearts to hear, wait, and obey. It slows us down when everything around us says, "decide now." It humbles us when ego wants the credit. It reminds us that the people we lead belong to God first.

Listening for God's Voice
In John 10:27, Jesus said, "My sheep listen to My voice; I know them, and they follow Me."

Great leadership starts with great listening. And the best leaders are the best listeners—not just to their team, but to the Shepherd. Prayer isn't just talking to God; it's also learning to recognize His voice amidst the noise.

As you pray, you may not always get a direct answer right away. But you'll gain clarity, peace, and often the courage to move in the right direction even when it’s hard.

Keep Prayer at the Center
If you want to lead like Jesus, you have to live like Jesus. And Jesus prayed constantly. Before big decisions. Before teaching. Before choosing His disciples. Before going to the cross. He lived in constant communion with the Father.

Whatever leadership decision you face today—pause. Pray. Then lead with boldness and peace.
  • What decision are you facing right now?
  • How can prayer shape the way you approach it?
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Staying On Mission

6/16/2025

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It’s easy for teams to get bogged down in the day-to-day grind. Urgent tasks, small frustrations, and routine responsibilities can chip away at the bigger vision. As leaders, part of our role is to continually pull people back to the “why” behind the “what.” When our teams stay connected to the mission, they stay motivated.

The Mission is the Map
At South Sound Church, we are constantly reminding ourselves that our mission is clear: To KNOW Christ and to make Him known, GROW disciples who grow disciples, and to SHOW the love of Christ to our community and beyond. (aka KNOW-GROW-SHOW). That mission becomes a guide for every ministry, decision, and conversation. When your team starts focusing on minor issues or preferences, pointing them back to the mission brings clarity and purpose.

Don’t Let Urgency Win
We all feel the pressure of the urgent. But urgent doesn’t always mean important. Jesus modeled this in His ministry—He never rushed, never panicked. He stayed focused on the Father’s will, even when crowds pressed in or disciples stressed out (see Luke 4:42-44). We need to lead like that: not reactionary, but intentional.

Repeat the Vision
Leaders often get tired of repeating the vision long before their team has even really heard it. Just because we’ve said it once—or a dozen times—doesn’t mean it’s sunk in. Repetition brings alignment. Habakkuk 2:2 says, "Write down the revelation and make it plain on tablets so that a herald may run with it." Make the vision plain, memorable, and share it often.

Be a Big Picture Person
Here’s the challenge:
  • What’s the bigger story your team needs to be reminded of?
  • Are you keeping the mission front and center?
  • Have you allowed busyness to blur your focus?

Recalibrate this week. Refocus. Reignite your team’s connection to the vision. And never stop reminding them of why you do what you do.
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Leading When Emotionally Drained

5/19/2025

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Leadership isn’t just about making decisions and casting vision—it’s about showing up, even when you’re running on empty. Emotional exhaustion is real, especially when you’re carrying the weight of others, navigating conflict, or pushing through extended seasons of uncertainty. But even when your emotional tank is low, your calling doesn’t pause.

Acknowledge the Weight
There’s no strength in pretending. Leaders get tired. Elijah, after one of his greatest spiritual victories, found himself isolated and emotionally crushed (1 Kings 19). God didn’t shame him—He met him in that exhaustion with rest and reassurance. Denying your weariness doesn’t make you strong. Owning it with humility puts you in a posture to be restored.

Don’t Lead Alone
When you’re emotionally drained, the worst thing you can do is isolate. Lean into trusted people—mentors, friends, counselors—who can remind you of what’s true. Galatians 6:2 says, “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” (NIV) Leadership doesn’t mean doing it all—it means leading in community.

Reconnect to the Source
You don’t lead out of willpower—you lead out of overflow. When your emotional reserves are depleted, go back to the well. Psalm 23:3 says, “He restores my soul.” The best thing you can do for your team or ministry when you’re running dry is to slow down and be with God. Worship. Rest. Journal. Read. Be refilled.

Make Decisions with Margin
Vision and decision-making suffer when we’re emotionally drained. Don’t force major moves from a depleted place. Delay what can wait. Bring others into the decision-making process. Clarity often comes after rest and reset. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” (NIV)

Faithfulness Over Flash
Sometimes the most powerful leadership isn’t bold vision—it’s just showing up. When you’re tired, be faithful. When you’re unclear, be prayerful. When you’re weak, be honest. Jesus understands exhaustion. He wept. He withdrew. He carried more than we ever will. And He still invites us, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28, NIV)


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The Art of Taking Risk

4/28/2025

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Leadership often requires bold moves—but not every moment calls for a leap. The art of leadership is knowing when to take a calculated risk and when to exercise wisdom and wait. Ecclesiastes 3:1 reminds us, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” (NIV) The challenge is in discerning what season you’re in.

The Value of Risk
Every breakthrough, every innovation, every leap forward comes with risk. Leaders who never take risks often stall their growth. Risk-taking demonstrates faith, courage, and a willingness to pursue something greater than the status quo.
  • Faith-driven risk – Trusting God to lead, even when the path is uncertain.
  • Vision-aligned risk – Taking bold steps that match the mission God has given you.
  • Growth-oriented risk – Doing what stretches you because you know comfort won’t get you where God wants you to go.

The Wisdom of Restraint
Just because you can take a risk doesn’t mean you should. There are times when wisdom calls us to slow down, assess, and wait on God’s timing. Proverbs 19:2 says, “Desire without knowledge is not good—how much more will hasty feet miss the way!” (NIV)

Wise leaders:
  • Seek counsel before leaping.
  • Pray for clarity instead of rushing forward.
  • Count the cost and consider the consequences.

How to Discern the Difference

  • Does this move align with the vision God gave you?
  • Are you acting out of fear of missing out—or faith in moving forward?
  • Have you invited trusted voices into the process?

If the answer points toward prayerful boldness, step out. If you sense chaos and pressure, it might be time to pause.

Trust God with the Outcome
Whether you’re taking a bold step or choosing to wait, the key is trusting that God is in control. Psalm 37:5 says, “Commit your way to the Lord; trust in Him and He will do this.” Leadership isn’t about always getting it right—it’s about staying faithful in the process.
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Leading Through Uncertainty

3/10/2025

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Uncertainty is one of the greatest challenges a leader will face. When the path ahead is unclear, decisions become harder, fear creeps in, and the weight of leadership grows heavier. But great leaders don’t panic in uncertainty—they navigate it with faith, wisdom, and a steady hand. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” (NIV).

Faith vs. Fear
Uncertainty can paralyze a leader who relies only on their own understanding. The difference between reacting in fear and leading with faith is trusting that God is still in control. Leaders who lean on Him can walk forward with confidence, even when the outcome is unclear. Faith doesn’t eliminate challenges, but it keeps fear from making the decisions.

Making Wise Decisions
Good leadership means making the best decision possible with the information available. That requires:

Seeking God’s wisdom – James 1:5 says, “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” (NIV). Wise leaders pray before they act.

Gathering insights from trusted voices – Proverbs 15:22 reminds us, “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” (NIV). Wise leaders listen well.

Being adaptable – Uncertainty requires flexibility. Holding onto a rigid plan can cause more harm than adjusting to new realities.

Stability in the Storm
When things feel chaotic, people look to their leaders for reassurance. Even if you don’t have all the answers, your calm presence brings stability. Jesus modeled this when He calmed the storm in Mark 4:39, saying, “Quiet! Be still!” (NIV). The disciples were panicking, but Jesus remained steady. Leaders who bring peace in the midst of uncertainty create a culture of trust and resilience.

Moving Forward with Confidence
Uncertainty is inevitable, but leadership is about moving forward anyway. Trust in God, seek wisdom, and remain steady. The best leaders aren’t the ones who always have the answers—they’re the ones who know where to turn when they don’t.
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Casting Vision, Inspiring Action

2/9/2025

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A leader without vision is like a ship without a rudder—drifting aimlessly, uncertain of direction. Casting a compelling vision isn’t just about having big ideas; it’s about painting a picture of a future that others want to be part of. Proverbs 29:18 reminds us, “Where there is no vision, the people perish” (KJV)... A clear and inspiring vision doesn’t just guide—it motivates and mobilizes people toward something greater.

Great leaders don’t just see things as they are—they see what could be. Vision requires looking beyond current challenges and imagining a better future. When Nehemiah saw the broken walls of Jerusalem, he didn’t just see destruction—he saw restoration. His vision led people to action, not because of his title, but because of his passion and clarity in communicating what needed to be done. What you see determines where you lead.

Communicating Vision Clearly
At a previous church, I asked the staff if they could recite our mission statement. Some could recall parts of it, a few got close, but no one knew it entirely. The biggest cause of Missional Drift is not knowing the mission. When people don’t know the mission, they can’t fully live it out. Without clarity, people lose focus, and the vision fades. I looked over the current mission statement and the statement of belief and found that everything fell into one of three categories. It was then that I developed the mission statement we use at South Sound Church today:

"We exist to KNOW Christ and to make Him known, GROW disciples who grow disciples, and SHOW the love of Christ to our community and beyond."

A vision that stays in your head won’t inspire anyone. Effective leaders know how to communicate their vision in a way that’s clear, compelling, and actionable. Jesus did this masterfully, using parables and stories to help His followers grasp the Kingdom of God. If people can’t see the vision, they won’t run with it. Keep it simple, keep it vivid, and keep it tied to a purpose greater than yourself.

Motivating Others to Action

A strong vision moves people from intention to action. It’s not just about what could be—it’s about why it matters. When you cast vision, help people see their role in it. Show them how their contributions make a difference. Give them ownership of the process. The most inspiring visions aren’t top-down directives; they’re shared missions.

Whether you’re leading a church, a business, a ministry, or your family, having a clear vision provides direction and purpose. Ask yourself: 
  • What future am I working toward?
  • Can the people around me see it? 
Vision doesn’t just tell people where to go—it gives them a reason to move. 

At South Sound Church, everyone knows we're all about three things– Know, Grow, and Show.

What’s your vision, and how are you casting it?
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    Rob Brower is a Pastor, Husband, Father, and Serial Entrepreneur.

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